Neurosis and Human Growth

A psychological theory book by Karen Horney

Neurosis and Human Growth: The Struggle Toward Self-Realization is a book by the German-American psychoanalyst Karen Horney, first published in 1950. The book is a seminal work in the field of psychology, particularly in the study of neurosis and personality development.

Overview

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In Neurosis and Human Growth, Horney explores the concept of neurosis as a process that impedes an individual's growth and self-realization. She argues that neurosis is not merely a set of symptoms but a complex process that affects the entire personality. Horney's work is grounded in her belief that the primary motivating force in human life is the drive toward self-realization, which she defines as the realization of one's potential and the development of one's true self.

Key Concepts

The Real Self

Horney introduces the concept of the "real self," which she describes as the core of an individual's being, encompassing their potential for growth, creativity, and self-fulfillment. The real self is the source of an individual's unique identity and the basis for their personal development.

The Idealized Self

In contrast to the real self, Horney discusses the "idealized self," a false self-image that individuals create in response to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. This idealized self is often unrealistic and unattainable, leading to a cycle of self-defeating behaviors and further neurosis.

The Tyranny of the Shoulds

Horney describes the "tyranny of the shoulds" as the internalized demands and expectations that individuals impose on themselves in an attempt to live up to their idealized self. These "shoulds" create a sense of obligation and guilt, further alienating individuals from their real self.

Neurotic Needs

Horney identifies a series of "neurotic needs" that arise from the conflict between the real self and the idealized self. These needs are exaggerated desires for affection, approval, power, and control, which individuals pursue in an attempt to alleviate their inner conflicts.

The Process of Growth

Horney emphasizes that overcoming neurosis involves a process of self-awareness and self-acceptance. Individuals must recognize and challenge their idealized self and the "shoulds" that govern their behavior. By doing so, they can begin to reconnect with their real self and pursue genuine personal growth.

Impact and Legacy

Neurosis and Human Growth has had a significant impact on the field of psychology, particularly in the areas of humanistic psychology and self-help. Horney's ideas have influenced numerous therapists and theorists, contributing to a greater understanding of the role of self-realization in mental health.

Related Pages

• Karen Horney
• Neurosis
• Humanistic psychology
• Personality development